Ok so I decided I need to make some extra notes on what you should do before you even start looking. First, make sure all your photos are of you and delete any photos of other girls you or one of your buddies posted. Second, if in your friends list is all half naked chicks us girls see that and go oh, pig. So you might want to use a page that you don't have all girls as friends on it. Ok now off to how to find and get the girl of your dreams off Facebook.
Step 1: Add girl you think is cute.
Step 2: Read through her whole page, read what she has in her info, read what she likes to do, likes to watch, and then go read all her posts and how she interacts with her friends. Take the time to go back far in her posts. Don't be lazy it will pay off later. Now by this time you should know if you like her personality and get what she likes.
Step 3: When she makes a post comment on it. Don't say how pretty she is or how she has a nice ass. Comment on her post and be intelligent and funny and charming. DON"T over do it. We don't like guys who try to hard to be funny all the time. We also can see right through you if you are trying to be Mr. Romeo.
Step 4: After sometime of getting to know her more on a talking level and you guys hit it off on her posts then you can send her a message. I would say not until at least a month of talking to her through posts.
Step 5: When you write her a message this does not mean your in and you can start with trying to romance her. Start with asking her a question about something you need advice on. Women have motherly instincts and we love to give advice. That should strike up more one on one conversations with her and make it more private.
Step 6: Never ask for her number. If she wants to give it to you she will. We are all scared of the internet and we are always told not to give it out. So let her choose when and if she wants to. Just keep writing her and shoot the shit. If she likes who you are she will continue to write you and you will see progression in her responses on what she thinks of you.
Step 7: After a couple of months of talking, suggest that maybe one day you guys could meet up for coffee or a bite to eat. Make sure to suggest a public place with lots of people so she feels safe.
Step 8: Good luck on your date and remember be the guy she has been talking to on Facebook and not some guy who is putting it on because your in person.
Step 9: Write me and tell me how it went!
Some of you may say, "wow couple of months, that's long". Well a couple of months can equal the life time with someone you really care about. So don't rush it unless your looking for just a one night stand.
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1. ADD GIRLS YOU THINK ARE CUTE
A no brainer.
Spend a couple of hours per week, adding 5 to 10 girls you think are cute or really hot as a friend. Write an intriguing opening line in the “add message” box that pops up.
If you can’t think of anything funny or intriguing to say, just forget the message and add her as a friend anyway.
2. GET FAMILIAR WITH HER PAGE
Spend 15 minutes skimming through her about page, interests, past wall posts in her timeline and photos. Just get a good understanding of who she is, what she’s about and how she interacts with her friends.
This will give you a better overview of her personality so you can
connect with her.
3. COMMENT ON NEW PHOTOS, VIDEOS AND STATUS UPDATES
When she posts a new photo, video or status update that you like, comment on it with a funny or positive message. Don’t be negative or too try hard, it will piss her off.
Keep doing this for about 3 weeks, so she becomes familiar with you.
4. SEND THE FIRST MESSAGE
After you’ve posted a few comments and liked her status updates, photos, videos etc, go ahead and message her to get the ball rolling.
Keep it brief, ask her opinion on something, so that she will likely respond. Women just can’t resist offering advice, it’s like breathing for them.
5. CONNECT WITH HER
If she responds to every message, it means she like you… so keep it up. Each message should be short and sweet, but you should be trying to connect with her. Try to really understand what she lives for, how she feels, and who she really is. Go with that goal and your conversations will be more interesting and connected.
6. SET UP A MEET
Never rush meeting with her, it should be at least a month and multiple messages before you should arrange meeting in person. Sometimes even longer, depending how many messages you’ve sent and how responsive she is.
Say to her “Let’s meet for a coffee or a bite to eat next week…” then arrange the time and date with her.
The absolute best way to get her to meet is if you speak to her on the phone. Give her your number (don’t ask for hers) and say “Call me later, so we can meet up for a coffee in town”.
RULES YOU MUST FOLLOW
Write these down and stick them to your forehead so you don’t forget them.
- Make sure your photos are up to date – Keep them fresh, like within the last couple of months so it’s not a shock when you meet her. It’s fine to have old ones, but keep them buried.
- Delete any photos of random girls on their own – If there are any slutty shots of girls in your albums, get rid of them. When another girl looks at this, she will think you’re typical guy and will just delete you.
- Use social proof – Upload pictures of you and pretty girls hanging out, but safe shots… like you’re in the park chilling with your “girl” friends or on a day out somewhere. This is also known as pre-selection.
- NEVER cold message a girl… it’s stupid – If you send 100 cold messages you might get one back, but it would be from a nutcase. Women get cold messages all the time and it never works, so don’t be a dumb-ass.
- Never leave yourself tagged in photos that can harm your cred – People like tagging other people in funny shots, like you throwing up in the gutter after a night out or running threw your garden butt naked. Make sure you’re not tagged in any of these shots.
- Never say how pretty or hot she is when she posts a “validation” photo – Women love posting shots online so they can get a shot of confidence, don’t give them that satisfaction. Always post a funny comment or don’t post anything at all.
- Don’t be Mr. funny – Women like funny guys but if you’re always trying to be funny, it can wear thin pretty quickly. So use the funny lines every so often.
- Don’t ask for the number outright – If you add her as a friend and go straight for the number, it’s just creepy. No rapport means no number.
